Sophia Benoit is the author of¿Well, This Is Exhausting, writes regular columns in GQ and Bustle, and has written for¿WSJ, The Guardian, The Cut, Fatherly, Insider, Refinery29, Allure, PS, and more. Sophia doesn't have an MFA from anywhere, and probably isn't ever going to, much to the chagrin of her father. She is the host of the sex and relationships Ringer podcast None of My Business. Originally from St. Louis, she now lives in Los Angeles with her dog and her boyfriend (but usually only spouses make it into bios, so don't worry about him).